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When your baby looks into your eyes for the first time,
it can feel like magic. That tiny moment, just a few seconds long, is one of
the first building blocks of connection. For babies with Down syndrome, eye
contact might take a little longer to develop, but it’s just as meaningful when
it comes.
In this post, we’ll explore what eye contact means in those early months, why it matters, and how you can gently encourage it with your baby.
What does eye contact mean at this age?
In the first three months of life, babies are still figuring out how to see the world. Their vision is developing, and they’re starting to notice faces — especially yours. Eye contact is one of the earliest signs of connection and communication. It’s your baby’s way of saying, “I see you. I’m here with you.”
For babies with Down syndrome, things like lower muscle tone and slower visual processing can mean that eye contact might not happen right away. And that’s okay. It doesn’t mean your baby isn’t bonding or developing. It just means they might need a little more time — and a little extra support.
Why is eye contact important?
Eye contact isn’t just about looking — it helps your baby:
It’s one of the earliest forms of non-verbal communication — and a powerful way to begin your lifelong relationship.
When should I expect eye contact?
Some babies begin making eye contact around 6 to 8 weeks, while others take a little longer — especially if they have Down syndrome. You might notice your baby:
These are all steps in the right direction. Think of it as a slow unfolding, not a delay, just a different rhythm.
How can I gently encourage eye contact?
You don’t need to follow a checklist, connection happens naturally through everyday moments. But here are a few ways to help support it:
A final word
If your baby isn’t making eye contact yet, please don’t worry. Every child develops in their own time. What matters most is the love and attention you’re already giving.
Eye contact will come, maybe slowly, maybe briefly at first, but it will come. And when it does, it will be just as beautiful and worth celebrating.
At Small Steps Online, we believe that connection starts in the smallest moments — a glance, a smile, a gentle touch. And we’re here to support you through every one of them.
If you have any questions, remember to reach out to the Small Steps Community Chat- there will always be a parent whose been through what you’re currently going through.
You’re not alone. We’re with you, one small step at a time. 👣
In this post, we’ll explore what eye contact means in those early months, why it matters, and how you can gently encourage it with your baby.
What does eye contact mean at this age?
In the first three months of life, babies are still figuring out how to see the world. Their vision is developing, and they’re starting to notice faces — especially yours. Eye contact is one of the earliest signs of connection and communication. It’s your baby’s way of saying, “I see you. I’m here with you.”
For babies with Down syndrome, things like lower muscle tone and slower visual processing can mean that eye contact might not happen right away. And that’s okay. It doesn’t mean your baby isn’t bonding or developing. It just means they might need a little more time — and a little extra support.
Why is eye contact important?
Eye contact isn’t just about looking — it helps your baby:
- Connect emotionally with the people around them
- Build social and communication skills
- Feel safe and secure in your presence
- Start developing joint attention, which is a key step in learning
It’s one of the earliest forms of non-verbal communication — and a powerful way to begin your lifelong relationship.
When should I expect eye contact?
Some babies begin making eye contact around 6 to 8 weeks, while others take a little longer — especially if they have Down syndrome. You might notice your baby:
- Looking at your face without quite making eye contact
- Staring at lights or windows
- Gradually tracking your face when you move
- Flickering their gaze briefly toward your eyes
These are all steps in the right direction. Think of it as a slow unfolding, not a delay, just a different rhythm.
How can I gently encourage eye contact?
You don’t need to follow a checklist, connection happens naturally through everyday moments. But here are a few ways to help support it:
- Face-to-face time Hold your baby close, with your face about 20–30 cm (8–12 inches) away — this is the distance they see best right now.
- Talk and sing Your baby loves your voice. Talking softly or singing while holding them can help draw their attention to your face.
- Use expression Smile. Blink. Raise your eyebrows. Babies are naturally drawn to expressive faces.
- Try during calm moments Eye contact is more likely when your baby is alert but relaxed: after a feed, during a nappy change, or during skin-to-skin time.
- Keep trying, gently. If your baby looks away, that’s okay. Give them a break and try again later. Follow their cues and go at their pace.
A final word
If your baby isn’t making eye contact yet, please don’t worry. Every child develops in their own time. What matters most is the love and attention you’re already giving.
Eye contact will come, maybe slowly, maybe briefly at first, but it will come. And when it does, it will be just as beautiful and worth celebrating.
At Small Steps Online, we believe that connection starts in the smallest moments — a glance, a smile, a gentle touch. And we’re here to support you through every one of them.
If you have any questions, remember to reach out to the Small Steps Community Chat- there will always be a parent whose been through what you’re currently going through.
You’re not alone. We’re with you, one small step at a time. 👣
Disclaimer: The information provided on Small Steps Online is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical, therapeutic, or developmental advice. Always consult with qualified healthcare providers, therapists, or relevant professionals regarding your child’s specific needs and situation. The September Institute and Small Steps Online are not liable for any outcomes resulting from the use or misuse of the information shared here.
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